Flow Remedies crystal essence combination c38. Choices.
Choices helps you realise that there are always options, even when you think there are none at all, and it will help you to make those choices as well. Even if it means doing nothing or accepting a situation for the time being.
This essence is the one you can start with if you feel stuck in a victim mentality and you want to change that. For starters: don’t blame yourself though, for you are in good company. Everyone experiences this emotion to varying degrees.
Choices helps you see that you are making yourself dependent on something or someone outside of yourself when you are stuck in a victim mentality, and it will help you to see that you always have a choice. That not doing something is a choice as well.
Even when you feel compelled to do something, you can weigh your options and then choose to do it anyway because the consequences of not doing it will be too detrimental to you. It sounds a bit contradictory, but it can be empowering to be able to say to yourself that yes, something is wrong and you did not consent to being in that situation, but you are going to do what you need to do in order to get through it anyway. The difference between feeling like you have no choice and deciding to do whatever is needed is that your sense of self doesn't take any more damage than it already has.
Choices helps you get an overview, align your thoughts and the options you have, and to weigh the consequences of those options.
You could refuse to go to that obligatory meeting at work, of course, but if that has negative consequences for your career options, you may find yourself choosing to go anyway. And if it's your own choice, you will feel less victimised. You could choose not to go, but if on the whole you like your job and it would hurt your chances of advancing if you don't, it suddenly becomes a bit less of a chore to go to the meeting and you will feel differently about it.
When working with this essence, you can support the energy by substituting 'I have to' by things like 'I'm going to', 'I want to' or 'I choose to'. Just the phrase 'have to' usually evokes so much resistance that you automatically get the feeling of not having any say in the matter at all, even when it's not meant as such.
This essence combination was created using the following single essences: opalite, amazonite, green aventurine, larimar, green apatite
  
